Guidance and Signposting for Life's Challenges
Grief isn’t polite. It doesn’t wait for the right moment or show up in neat stages. It crashes in when you least expect it. Or sits quietly in your bones for days. Sometimes it hits like a wave. Other times it’s background noise — dull, heavy, always there. People like to talk about “closure” or […]
Read MoreMany people have asked me what to do, who to contact and how it’s expected for you to be when your person dies, so I thought I’d share what I’ve learned during the last 6 months. What to do? Be hysterical. Be calm. Be whatever you need to be. There are no rules when your […]
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On Tuesday 17th January, a scaffolding lorry took me out on the M5. I was travelling in lane 1, in the roadworks near Bromsgrove, at 50mph and the lorry was in lane 2. We were travelling at pretty much the same speed when he moved into lane 1. Errrm, HELLO….I am here! He clearly couldn’t […]
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